Visrual disparities

I like my picture reflection in distance. In my dark color syles and humble budget, I manage to look just fine. If I had to ask a "tourist" to take me the same distant photo on the beach, it looks horrible. How can a third party (Photo shooter) affect the reflections of lights, notwithstanding aging and stress factors ?

The moment 0:25 of this video just describe my brain trauma on 02 12 2012, 23:50

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qx2qOl9YbLY

Raafat Abou Chakra / I love you

Je prie pour les chrétiens libanais massacré au Chouf du Mont Liban, I invite Druze and Christians for peace